I hear a lot about how do you be happy after a break-up? How am I supposed to be happy by myself? First of all you have to love yourself. You will never be happy if you’re looking for happiness in someone else. Let’s be honest here for a moment, people are a big let down. People are human and after awhile selfishness kicks in. I asked one of my favorite groups “How To Be Happy With Yourself” and these are the responses I received.
Say positive affirmations daily, develop a hobby, skill or talent, pamper yourself, do things that you enjoy alone, get enough rest, eat better, exercise, get rid of or distance yourself from toxic people, accept and/or work on all your perceived flaws, please yourself before anyone else, etc.
Stay true to yourself and accept who u are.
Smile through the struggle. It’s far easier to wear a smile then a frown. Spoil yourself every now and then. Sky is the limit and you know that you can have what you want, be what you want.
Learning to forgive yourself is a major part of being happy.
These ladies mentioned a lot of good points. I’d like to add go out, enjoy life, go somewhere or do something that you’ve never done or been before, do something that you enjoy, and the biggest thing that most people can’t even answer Find SOMETHING That YOU Enjoy. Also take pride in your appearance. As ladies we know that if we look good then we feel good.
I hope this helps someone out there.